Anger
and Control in Marriage — Episode
101
We examine the effects of an angry, manipulative woman as she attempts
to control her husband and her teenage children. Dr. Baer interviews
each of the members of the family individually, and then he teaches
them the principles of Real Love they need to interrupt the behavioral
cycles that have been destroying them. The episode concludes with
stunning scenes of insight and hope. Learn More |
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We Never Have Sex Anymore — Episode
102
Most couples experience a great deal of tension around this subject,
and it is rarely resolved. Dr. Baer works with a couple and help
them acquire an entirely different perspective on sex in relationships,
thereby eliminating the battleground that had always caused them
so much pain. |
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The
Brat Farm — Episode
103
We observe two parents who are at their wits’ end as they try to raise
two young children who are completely out of control. Dr. Baer lives with the
family, and we watch as the principles of Real Love dramatically change the behavior
of these children, without the stern “sitting in the corner” or shaming
approach of some programs. |
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The
Power of Porn Addiction — Episode
104
Pornography is a multi-billion dollar business, the number one destination on
the Internet, and so common in our culture that we scarcely notice it anymore
as it weaves its addictive presence—with our willing participation—into
the fabric of our culture, destroying lives and families at a phenomenal rate.
Dr. Baer interviews some porn addicts and their families, demonstrates the destructive
effects of this disease, illustrates the real cause of the problem, and then
outlines a practical path for healing. |
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The Angry Boss — Episode
105
We visit a workplace that is crippled by a boss who is critical,
angry, and unappreciative. Dr. Baer interviews his employees and documents his
behavior. Then he teaches both the employees and the boss the principles that
will change the way everyone interacts—leading to increased harmony in the workplace
and to increased productivity and profitability for the company. |
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Can This Marriage Survive an
Affair?
Episode 106
Few events are more traumatic to a marriage than an affair. We observe a couple
discussing the effect on their marriage of one of them having an extra-marital
affair, and then we watch Dr. Baer discuss an unusually productive approach to
responding to an affair in a marriage. |
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The Racism Revolution — Episode
107
Racism has been an ugly, frightening subject for centuries, and largely we still
don’t know how to approach it. Dr. Baer talks with black people from all
over the country, and even speaks to a black congregation, discussing an approach
to racism that revolutionizes our understanding of this inflammatory subject. |
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Coping with Drug Addiction — Episode
108
An addict is almost invariably also a liar and a thief, and in a broad variety
of other ways he disrupts the lives of everyone around him, especially his family.
It’s only natural, then, that family members tend to choose from a variety
of behaviors when it comes to the addicts: distance themselves from him, accuse
him, vilify him, and so on. We’ll get to know the family of an addict and
watch Dr. Baer as he teaches them the true causes of addiction and how that understanding
can knit a family together again. |
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The Dating Game — Episode
109
Dating has come to be characterized by a vast majority of participants as a combination
of confusion and anxiety. We observe two couples in the dating process and observe
the culturally accepted deceptions that people employ. Then Dr. Baer teaches
them how dating can be an entirely different—and far more productive—experience. |
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Can the Prisons be Changed? — Episode
110
Prisoners in this country are literally “throw-away people.” Once
they’re in prison, we do nothing to understand them or help them. We observe
Dr. Baer as he teaches the principles of Real Love in a maximum-security prison
in Georgia, where the prisoners realize for the first time how they came to be
incarcerated and what they can do in the future to keep from returning to that
place. |
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The
Teens from Hell — Episode
111
Two teenagers are making their parents’ lives—and the lives of their
teachers and others—pure hell with their anger, rebellion, and their use
of alcohol, drugs, and sex. Their parents have tried everything they know and
have no clue what to do next. Dr. Baer intervenes and teaches the parents the
principles that begin to make a dramatic difference in working with their children. |
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Victims of sexual abuse — Episode
112
We have long elevated these victims to a place of special honor in the victim
hall of fame, and this approach has actually done them a disservice. Dr. Baer
will interview two such victims and demonstrate how a new approach is far more
effective in bringing victims of sexual abuse back into the mainstream of life
and in enabling them to achieve genuine peace and happiness for themselves and
complete forgiveness for their abusers. |
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The Trauma of Divorce — Episode
113
Divorce has become so common that we sometimes forget how horribly
traumatic it is for every single family involved. Dr. Baer will
interview a family recently affected by divorce and explore how
it affects the couple and the children. He will then teach them
how Real Love can make their lives much happier and make divorce
much less traumatic, especially for the children. |
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